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How People Use The
Journal
My research and work has shown me that although there are infinite
ways to use a journal, people have one main focus when approaching it.
The main focus of using a journal (or even the desire to use a
journal) is to problem solve. I have found that no one
says “Wow! I’m doing such a great job in my life I need a new
place to celebrate, I’m going to start to journal!” Instead they
say “I’ve tried everything else, why not this?”
Time after time, I have found this to be true. I can tell you
from personal experience that this is how I initially used the tool,
also. In being privileged to read through or listen to others
read through their journals (and in looking at my own) I have seen
this show up. What I notice is that for 3 to 6 months there is
writing about a specific problem and then Poof! the next entry
date is 5 months later and it’s a brand new problem.
The journal is used in this capacity because it is a price-less tool
for problem solving. Because the act of journaling is
introspective it makes the journal a custom –made tool. The
process of writing puts you on your path, right where you belong.
You get to learn about yourself, your issues and the
aspects of your life that need changing. The personal journal
allows you to journey within to recognize your values and goals and to
help you maintain and realize your vision. It can also assist in
the problem solving needs of: decreasing impulsivity, creating
self-awareness, processing and releasing intense emotion, organizing
one’s thoughts, recognizing, changing and releasing consistent and
undesirable behavior patterns, producing closure and resolution of
life circumstances, processing grief and loss, and the list can go on
and on.
The value of journaling reaches beyond problem solving, though.
People use the journal for a variety of different purposes:
writing down daily activities, brain-storming, to enhance memory
function, to plan events, prioritize, provide alone time, to write
correspondence (some of which is sent, some of which is not sent), to
develop a closer relationship with God, to celebrate success, and once
again, the list goes on and on.
I tell you this information for a couple of reasons, not too long ago,
I taught an abbreviated workshop to a bunch of people who had never
journaled. Because these individuals had not ever picked up the
tool, I had lots of questions about the process its self. This group
of people had no idea about the benefit of using a journal.
It is so exciting for me to be able to share this vehicle with people
who haven’t ever experienced it because it has been so valuable to me
personally and to many others with whom I have had contact over the
years.
Long time journalers can also run into the same set of issues; not
realizing that the journal is such a versatile tool. For
instance, I had a person in my group that stated she’d been journaling
for twenty years. During the workshop, I mentioned that people
use the journal for healing. This participant later expressed to
me that she was shocked. She had been writing for twenty years and had
not ever thought that the journal could be a tool for healing.
I believe that the under-estimated value of a journal has occurred
because we have technologically lost the need for reflective writing.
With the availability of the telephone as a communication device there
is no longer a need to spend time writing letters. And with the
inception of abbreviated words in both e-mail and texting, there is
even less contemplation time. It can also be said that the
presence of key boards has made the process of contemplative writing
almost extinct from the average person’s daily life. Unless, of
course, they journal.
Why would this shortened form of writing be such a problem? It
is a problem because we don’t think about or ponder what we are
writing. We forget that we are still communicating and there
fore our current communication process occurs without much
thoughtfulness. This makes us decidedly less introspective, and
because introspection is a spiritual tool, we are also less spiritual.
Because we don’t take the time to process information we often
over-react creating un-necessary chaos. A moment’s reflection
would diminish this chaos by causing us to withhold inappropriate
thoughts or comments. We have lost the profound impact that
writing has on the ability for us to “use our heads”.
Journaling is a process that is effective in a vast number of ways.
It is most frequently used to problem solve, but its value extends
into infinite directions. It is not the only tool available for
healing, but it if you are ready to make changes in your life, it is
certainly an extremely efficient tool. For now, why not put the
power of writing to use and instead of e-mailing or phoning, write a
letter in long hand? It could be the beginning of a long and
fulfilling adventure.
Michelle L. McClellan, Psy.C. ©
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Dr. McClellan's Recommended Reading:
“The Psychic Pathway” by Sonia
Choquette | “True Balance” by Sonia Choquette
“Notes to Myself” By Hugh
Prather |
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