One of the goals of my work is to combine awareness of the Law of Attraction with the awareness of the specific energy a person is using to create his/her life.  Participants in my programs are given many exercises to show them where their energy is being placed and to teach them how to create new and different things in their life.  I give a very specific Energy Assessment Exercise that allows an individual to show him or herself exactly how he or she is using their energy.  In my program, I call this specific energy use one's Commitments.  By combining the Law of Attraction with Commitment, an individual is able to fulfill their heart's desire.

     One of the greatest detriments to commitment and creating the life you desire is indecision.  Wavering on a position is an illusion.  Observe a person who's busy analyzing two points of an issue.  Then observe the body language of that same person.  What is this person doing with his/her body?  What you have most likely witnessed is the person participating in their same old every day behaviors.  This person is probably doing what they always do at this particular time of the day, whether they are mulling over two points or not.  This indicates that energetically (because it take more energy to move a body through space) the person is already choosing to stay the same.  The greater energy, the energy of the movement, is being used toward remaining status quo.  Therefore to not decide is to decide.  It is to say that everything is OK as it is.

     Indecision is based upon the energy of fear.  It says that I could possibly make a "wrong" choice.  There also seems present with indecision the assumption that with this "wrong" choice all other opportunity disappears.  Beck called this type of right/wrong paradigm "Dichotomous Thinking".  Most of us have heard it termed "Black and White Thinking".  The idea that all will disappear have been termed by Beck as "All or Nothing Thinking".  I ask you to consider if a wrong decision can actually be made?  And does anything ever really stop or disappear?  Truly, isn't life really gray and rather than things stopping, don't they simply change form?  Ask someone with children who has gotten a divorce.  There is the black and white belief and an all or nothing belief in our culture that divorce puts an end to a relationship.  This is not true at all.  In fact, many couples will tell you that they are required to speak to their ex-spouse more frequently than they spoke to their spouses.  The relationship changes form, but the only thing that has "ended" is the state's legal contract of marriage.  And even that has only changed form and become the divorce decree and custody agreement.

     God cannot move energy in any direction without you making a choice.  Remember, ASK and it shall be given to you.  You are inefficiently using time and creation energy when you choose to be indecisive.  The Universe continues to physically back your current state of affairs when you do not make a choice.  So, not to choose is the same as choosing.  Remember, the leap of faith is making the choice.