| What's in the Way of Your
YOUR ABUNDANCE There are a number of very good
prosperity programs in existence. These programs contain similar
themes. Many of them express the importance of such things as
tithing, forgiveness, gratitude, visualization, and knowledge of
spiritual principles. All of these concepts, and the actions which
accompany them, are valid steps toward prosperity. With the large
amount of information available to each of us through these
programs, it would seem as though prosperity consciousness would be
running rampant over the world. I do not observe this to be the
case, even in those spiritual communities where abundance training
is available.
How can this state of affairs exist? There
seems to be a block between the steps to creating prosperity and the
ability to manifest abundance. The block to the creation of
abundance is called fear. Before an individual can take the
knowledge present in a prosperity program and fully implement it, he
or she must clear a path to be able to perform the actions. This
path clearing occurs by removing fear of prosperity, especially the
fear of money.
I am actually surprised at how few of the
abundance training programs discuss the fear that exists around
prosperity. Is this the case because many of us (even or perhaps
especially, those in the spiritual community) are frightened of
money and do not like to admit it? I've heard many professed
spiritual people express the mechanics of prosperity and yet seem to
be unable to manifest it. Is this due to skipping a step and not
removing the fear obstacle? This step is an easy one to skip since
it doesn't feel to pleasant. I am not particularly fond of feeling
fear, one of the necessary parts of the process of removing it.
Personally, I can see why both myself and others would prefer the
good old cognitive standby of analyzing fear away. "Well, the
reason I am unable to manifest abundance is because I just haven't
done enough affirmations."
It was Robert Frost who said, "The best way
out is always through." If you do not deal with the fear that sits
between you and your prosperity, than the motivating energy driving
your affirmations is not that of prosperity, but that of fear. "If
I just say my affirmations over and over, it just HAS to work, right
God?" If the energy backing your thoughts and or actions is fear of
not having abundance, the end result of your effort is not going to
be money or whatever makes you feel wealthy, it is still going to be
fear.
The removal of fear around an issue is not a
difficult process, it is however a highly uncomfortable process. It
requires you to do exactly what most of us spend time avoiding. It
requires you to feel those yucky feelings and
look at those less than spiritual thoughts behind
your abundance beliefs. I hear some of your thinking, "But if I
feel the fear, I am not going to get money, I am only going to get
fear." Consider that if you are denying the fear energy that your
body has already created around money than all you are still going
to get is fear. Remember, feelings are called feelings because they
are meant to be felt. What you are feeling is energy. If you avoid
feeling, having or expressing this fear energy, you are still
creating with it. Whatever you put your attention on grows, even if
your attention takes the form of denial or avoidance. It takes a
lot of energy to avoid fear and that qualifies to the universe as
attention.
To increase your abundance, keep doing your
affirmations, but make room for them to work their energy. Remove
the fear blocking their efficiency. Start today. Take whatever it
is about money and abundance that scares you the most and immerse
yourself in the fear feeling until it dissipates. You can
accomplish this by taking one aspect of the abundance process and
educating yourself on it. If it scares you to balance your
checkbook, learn how to balance your checkbook. If what frightens
you is the stock market, or mortgages, or loans read about these
things. If it scares you to deal with credit card debt, make a
phone call to a credit counselor. If your fears are about taking a
risk making a career change, take one step toward that change each
day. If your fears are more about not deserving wealth or
abundance, acknowledge that you believe this, feel the feelings
attached to your low sense of self worth and then participate in an
activity that feeds your soul, like taking a walk or reading a book.
If it scares you to see yourself living abundantly, sit down and
with the words or images draw a picture of your abundance.
There are many steps you can take toward ending
our fear of being prosperous. Take these steps and remove the
obstacle blocking their ability to work for you, fear. The valuable
piece to keep in mind is that no matter how good any single
prosperity program is, if there is fear blocking your path and
motivating your "need" for abundance, all this prosperity program
(no matter how effective it may be) will produce is an abundance of
fear. |